A Dream Within A Dream


Take this kiss upon the brow!
And, in parting from you now,
Thus much let me avow–
You are not wrong, who deem
That my days have been a dream;
Yet if hope has flown away
In a night, or in a day,
In a vision, or in none,
Is it therefore the less gone?
All that we see or seem
Is but a dream within a dream.

I stand amid the roar
Of a surf-tormented shore,
And I hold within my hand
Grains of the golden sand–
How few! yet how they creep
Through my fingers to the deep,
While I weep–while I weep!
O God! can I not grasp
Them with a tighter clasp?
O God! can I not save
One from the pitiless wave?
Is all that we see or seem
But a dream within a dream?

Edgar Allan Poe


I’d rather be a boy and play with paper planes, than be a man and play with a woman’s heart.” In your the number of men is countable as compared to the number of boys who have refused to grow up. Don’t try to convince yourself that you are a man simply because you have reached a certain age. No can do. You can be a boy at 28 and another can be a man at 18. Want to know how we can tell? Continue reading. The ideal idea that women these days want is a man like the now very famous Christian Grey from the book and movie, Fifty Shades of Grey. A man with a sense of power and control and confidence and intimidation that sends a cold chill down everyone’s spine the minute he walks into a room. For the ladies reading this article, how many guys have made you feel overwhelmed in this manner? Try to think of just one, just one. It’s hard, isn’t it? And for the guys, who do you think you are? A man or a boy? I know you said a man but are you really? Well, listed below is the differences that tell a man from a boy so read them up and see where you fall.

view, is this a boy or a man? You’ll find out, continue reading. Many a times, ladies need men in their lives but so often it is that they end up being disappointed. Why? Because:

1. Boys find excuse of how they can’t. Men find ways of how they can.
2. Boys claim they can do something. Men get up and actually do it.
3. Boys blame people for their mistakes. Men take responsibility and find solutions.
4. Boys seek permission to do things. Men give permission to others.
5. Boys try to blend in. Men make sure they stand out.
6. Boys hide from fear. Men embrace their fears.
7. Boys use their insecurities as excuses (to fail). Men use their insecurities as reasons (to succeed).
8. Boys feel intimidates by others success. Men feel inspired to succeed.
9. Boys go the easy way. Men go the right way.
10. Boys live the life society/their parents want. Men live the life they want however they want it.
11. Boys feel good putting others down. Men feel good lifting others up.
12. Boys keep on complaining. Men go out there and get what they want.
13. Boys repress their feelings. Men express their feelings.
14. Boys need more time to be ready for the world. Men need more challenges to overcome.
15. Boys are always intimidated. Men intimidate others.
Is it too much to ask that men, man up? The difference between a boy and a man is not how they make mistakes but how they rebound from these mistakes. How they take control of situations. How they address issues in case the same situation arises again. How you dress. How you speak (with utter confidence of course) and the things that come from your mouth.  When a guy says, “I’d rather be a boy and play with paper planes, than be a man and play with a woman’s heart.” What does this make him?  Boy or a man? Well, this is a very well spoken man who would rather destroy inanimate items than dare mess around with a woman s heart. A boy is one who looks for different girls to sleep with, but a man spends his time looking for that special someone worth waking up to each day.
My view: You don’t have to be a man to know a boy when you see one. You don’t have to be a boy to know a man when you see one.

Boys, it’s about that time you grew bigger balls and man up.

With love,

Eye Candy



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The evil signs that mankind is coming to a fatal end has come. I am glad to introduce to you, THE G-SPOT. Yes! Humanity is coming down thanks to little miss g-spot over here. It’s like she controls the world. Actually, she does control the world. Men cannot go a day without seeing a g-spot, tasting a g-spot or thinking about a g-spot. Be it black, white, or fifty other shades of bloody grey, a g-spot is a g-spot and men will do just about anything to get it. These days they say it as ‘tap that’ which means ‘bang that’ which means ‘g-spot baby, here I come.’  G-spot holders, let them drool but don’t let them drill. Seduce them, flirt with them, give a kiss here and there but when it comes to down there, don’t let them an inch close.

 Ladies what you don’t realize is that in order to get ‘the main man’ or the ‘guy of your dreams’ you don’t give, you stall. Your cookie is the slice of heaven that they want and it is exactly what you should not let them have. That is the only way you keep them there until they see that truly, this girl is not just some random person that I can ‘get it’ from whenever I think of it. Surprise him here and there with little teases and go a whole mile to make out and do other things with him that will entice him and keep him coming back. The more you tease, flirt and show some skin here and there is the more he will continue to come back to you until finally he can’t see anyone else apart from you. Know why?  Because you have kept him guessing and have kept him interested all through but at the same time you haven’t given this physical creature the chance to taste little miss g-spot. It’s like a tag of war but in this case you have the upper hand because you give him an ultimatum. If he moves past the tag line, he loses any chance he had dreamt of ever ‘getting it’ but if he continues to stay on the other side, then maybe, just maybe, something good might come out of his ‘patience’. You are the one to decide when to pull him over to your side, when finally he puts a ring on it, or not. It really just depends on what you hope to gain from that relationship:  Marriage or just something to pass time. Either way, holding on to the cookie and testing his patience is good to also know whether his intentions towards you are pure or if you are just ‘another girl’.

Give him head and let him go down on you once in a while. Touch him here and there and let him do the same because you can’t just shut him off completely and expect him to be celibate for you for 2 years. Not going to happen. Men are physical creatures whether we like to admit it or not and yours is no different so honey stop avoiding the truth and know what to do about it to get your image stuck in his head. When you are both ready, you two will know. Feel the pressure to give it up but don’t do it because it’s exactly how you will end up in bed crying all alone with tissues all over the place, writing the story of your life on your diary and a cat to comfort you. This is me making sure that the man you want to spend the rest of your life with actually does that.

Take my advice or at the very least, think about it.

With love,

Eye Candy




I sincerely thank Chape for nominating me for this totally amazing award. it took a while but it’s now up, isn’t it? anyway, click the link and head on over to check out the blog. one thing is for sure, you will not be disappointed, i know i wasn’t. so, let’s get straight into it.

The rules:

  1. Post the award picture on your blog.
  2. Write a short paragraph about yourself and what your blog means to you.
  3. If you could be any animal, what would you be?
  4. Pick ten nominees.

My blog is my little child and what do you do with a child? you love it unconditionally, take care of it and hope and pray that it may grow to become something extremely good. That is how i view my little child.



“It’s best to have failure happen early in life. It wakes up the Phoenix bird in you so you rise from the ashes.”
Author: Anne Baxter












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I tagged a few of you guys on your blogs about me nominating you for The Spirit Animal Blog Award but the post ain’t up yet because of a few technical hitches. It will be up on Saturday so keep a look out.
Also, there is a poem called, ‘I hope you die in a freak accident’ if my memory serves me right that i read on WP but i have really looked for it everywhere and i can’t find it or the author. If the poem belongs to you then please inform me so that i can feature you as a guest poet on my blog.
Aside from that, i love you guys so very much. You inspire me in ways i can’t possibly describe. If anyone of you ever feels the need to talk, discuss or request something from me please feel free to ask.
(If any of you are wondering about the person in the pic, that’s me. Figured it’s about time you know your faithful blogger)
                              With love,
                                 Eye Candy